A question we received:
I have been wondering why women look so old for their age and men look so young? In light of what you have just explained, does it mean that women are more active during this later, receptive stage in their life?
The Seer:
Yes, partly because of others' expectations. If she has been nurturing and caretaking others for years, they will in all likelihood continue to expect this from her. It's a hard habit to break unless everyone cooperates. In addition, women have been more closely connected to planetary cycles and the Earth is going through the exact same dilemma: she needs to be receiving, because her giving days are over, and if we continue to expect her to only give, she becomes depleted. She ages.
To be continued...
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With all due respect to whoever posed this question, Iām sharing a different perspective here by saying that in this lifetime I havenāt felt or observed this generalization of āwomen looking older than men. Certainly not true for myself nor the women in my family – even those with children š. So while stressors & challenges in each personās life are varied, I still feel we have some degree of control over how we choose to respond. E.g., Almine has said that resistance to life shows up in wrinkles & other bodily signs.š
ā¤ Thank you so much for this! ā¤
I have been in a job of nurturing and caretaking for many years and I felt that it is time for me to let this job go. I do not feel to nurture or giving care anymore it takes to much of me and I feel very depleted. At the same time my oldest son is moving out and starting to live on his own. I will be on my own and have my home all to myself. It feels like an inner push to just sit down and be. Thank you so much for this message.
I am looking forward to guidance on how to give back to the Earth, which i assume is coming??
Me too! ā”
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Almine…. You have hit the nail on the head….. I have very much felt this within my own Divine Feminine aspect in terms of giving or over giving…. In these last days I have removed 2 masculine aspects that were very draining to the Divine Feminine. Idid sacred Rune spreads to feel it would be beneficial for my life, and all life. I nearly went in to self doubt, but reading this has just confirmed it for me. Not only does the Divine Feminine become depkeated but also becomes very irritated because it feels then like there are just takers with zero gratitude…..
I would like to heal this within my being and as a proxy for the beloved Earth… May it bless all of life…. I have felt in this last week that I am very much gaurding my energy… After let me say this in as much a polite way as possible after I cut off supply to one paticular masculine, later in my dreamtime I dreamt what felt to me to be Canada, I was with a beloved sister there, we saw many stalls trinkets etc.. I saw this necklace with a huge sky blue egg on the bottom of I want to say (chĆ”in) but it was a necklace. The sky blue egg was so large that my one hand could not hold it, as I held it over my right hand, the necklace started to spin in all directions very quickly, people who were there were celebrating and cheering, I had no idea what it meant, I asked the person who owned the stall what it meant and they said ” don’t you know it means you are going to get a windfall of money alot” then I saw myself wearing this necklace with thus huge sky blue egg hanging on my sternum, I kept my hand around it so it would not bounce as I walked, felt more like to keep it safe.. I noticed lots of fresh new areas concrete new buildings but it felt very wide open like there was space. ( vast) I felt to look over my right shoulder and saw 2 men coming up from behind me at the right, one looked like he had addiction issues, I went to run away but they grabbed me on both sides on my left and right so it felt I couldn’t escape I was furious screaming “Get off Me” struggling to get them off. I eventually vibrated out of that reality with the necklace around my neck and my sky blue egg… In other words I woke up, but felt very unsettled after that dream. The 2 masculine which I had cut off were trying to steal my egg, and thanks to another OO sister who shared her beautiful insight with me. It felt to Earth… They were trying to steal Earth… Humanity, Human masculine aspects taking without giving in return and now the Divine Feminine within my being is furious for even allowing it. So I hope as I heal this that protecivness does not fofm, but surrenderd trust instead and in great awareness learn to sheild my energy. I feel the Earth very much,… Almine… What must you be feeling….
Much love and eternal gratitude for all that you have given
Woo what a dream! thank you very much for sharing.
Very interesting. Thank you!