External circumstance is but a mirror image of the Individual’s response to life unfolding Continue reading →
Subpersonalities
If I Were Drawn Into Explaining and Defending
In the second phase of any level of mastery, the challenge is to not get addicted to conflict. Continue reading →
They Will Never Forsake Us
Indigenous people know that by giving an ill and ailing person a new name, the individual can become healthy again. Continue reading →
The Lesson of Dependence
To evolve beyond the stage of dependence to one of interdependence, the lesson of dependence must first be understood. Continue reading →
The Dysfunctional Inner Child
The dysfunctional Inner Child is needy and seeks a caretaker in others, rather than developing self-sufficiency. Continue reading →
Thoughts on the Subpersonalities
The dysfunctional nurturer either neglects self-nurturing or over-focuses on self-nurturing at the cost of all else, becoming self-centered. Continue reading →