As the saying goes, 'In order to succeed, one must try and try again'. There is no success without many seeming failures. It takes some 18-odd years for a child to grow to adulthood and self-sufficiency. This never takes place without many failures. The problem is getting stuck in the belief that we are defined by our failures. Many parents and children spend a lifetime lamenting the failures of years because we have not been taught that there is no failure.
Take a moment to scan your life and see where you can apply this attitude, then notice the dramatic shift in awareness and the sense of power and freedom it can provide.