You are the most important being in your environment. And if others pull your strings, you are stepping out from being the moving figure in-between two mirrors, and stepping into the mirror. How disempowering is that?
The Seer
This transmission was originally published on Messages For Lightworkers (2016-2019). It's made available as an extra to supporters of the Original Ones platform (membership login is required).
The Seer:
Beloved ones, the tyranny of the body is an effect of our attitudes towards the petty tyrants in our life. (The global government of the bankers β you know, certain organizations like the Federal Reserve β is not federal at all. It is privately owned.) We can only focus on ourselves. If we want our health to get better, if we want that stranglehold to release, we have to change the way others can affect us.
When I look at why it matters what they do and what they say, the reason is that we allow special relationships to take on a special significance to us, because we believe that is part of loyalty, that is part of devotion to the relationship; that is part of making this person more special than the man who sells me my groceries. So this belief that we must make a special importance to certain relationships is the root of the matter.
Denise Lines says
Thank you Rogier….It is so wonderful to be able to get previous messages from "Messages for Lightworkers"…..it simply allows for a deeper meaning and insight to take place. Much appreciated.
Sarah says
I don't feel like I must make special importance of relationships out of loyalty, I like to do it because I genuinely love the experiences, I love what it brings to my life.
Is that still a problem?
I seem to be quite backwards often, is it possible some of us just aren't good for this work? I used to think I must be here by accident, even after learning of the information Almine brings to light, now I'm not sure about accidents, so I'm just really confused, why exactly would I be here if I just seem to be "difficult" to everything, including important stuff like this. I'm inspired to have special relationships, for the experiences and beauty that grows from them, for what I get to express and observe the expressions of. I'm confused at how something that can be so beautiful (being reasonably balanced and not completely dysfunctional of course) could be the cause of something seemingly so awful.
Like if it were to be, that in order to solve all these problems, I'd have to stop having special relationships, I don't want to, that's not authentic to me, so does that mean I'm just doomed to cause myself more problems and misery? What's the point then? Maybe I'm just too defiant to life, but it comes from passionate enthusiasm for life. I love so much, and have such intention for beautiful things, if I'm just causing problems, why do I exist? I certainly don't want to be part of the problem, as much as I don't want to not have special relationships. Do I have to be so difficult existing ππ« . I'm not sure if I'm "good" or "bad" here, but I'm just going to keep focusing on what's infront of me β€οΈ.
Derek says
Perhaps your not a "problem" to be solved. But, problem is, I love solving problems! When your a hammer everything else looks like a nail. So before I proceed to hammer away and try and solve your "problem". Would you rather me just admit that I don't understand you, or your perceived "problem"?
Sarah says
Hopefully my problem isn't as much of a problem as it seemed π surrendered trust that I'm being what I'm supposed to be. Hopefully following my inspiration and passion leads where it should.
Marta says
Sarah, it seems you have the opportunity to bring clarification to something that is deeply entrenched in human consciousness. Finding what the premise needs to be–that you are the only being in your own world and there is only One Infinite Being will lead to the right foundation. The joy from experiences can come even if these foundational concepts are in place. It is just a matter of adjusting perception. Letting go of illusions is indeed a disillusioning experience. I went through this, having lived much of my early life emphasizing relationships.
Eventually my life experiences put me in the place of having to really grasp the indivisibility of life. Where I am now I would not trade for anything.
Sarah says
Perhaps then maybe I'm not as much a problem as I was concerned about π I often reflect on how everything in my environment is me, so maybe the ways I make relationships special isn't the same as what's being described above. I think I treat them special as valued extentions of my own expression, so maybe it's different if the special relationships are more integrated and not viewed as completely separate. Hopefully this is the case, thank you so much β€οΈ
Dhani says
Good point. Thanks for the reminder.