Question:
There are times that I feel a lack of love and connectedness from my husband. He says that during those times he feels 'hollow' and life seems empty and futile. From my perspective I feel 'shut out' and unable to assist. What is going on?
The Seer:
He is describing the feelings of someone with a closed heart. Life suddenly loses its magic for someone during this time. There is a sad satiety that hangs over the day. The person has lower energy levels and wants to sleep more.
The Causes
- Lack of the B vitamins
- Fear
- Obsessive and, unusually intense, immersal in activity.
- Over-focused attachment to outcome (trying obsessively to achieve something, or vicariously engaged in another's outcome, like the Super Bowl).
What to Do to Open the Heart
- Take daily vitamin B12
- If the person has depression or anxiety, use the Pekana homeopathic remedy: Psy-stabil β 20 drops in a bit of pure water, three times a day away from food
- Go out in nature and try and make physical contact with the earth or trees
- Don't make any important life's decisions during such a time. Be aware that it is temporary and try to ride it out.
- Let your Inner Nurturer pamper you and sleep as much as you'd like.
- Drink a cup of St. John's Wort tea every day, for a month.
- Physical exercise helps some individuals.
What you are experiencing is the way most humans feel every day. This is a good inspiration to treat others with compassionate understanding. Empathy (which most highly evolved people have) could therefore feel this hopelessness and futility just by being around the humans in your everyday life. Be aware that you are experiencing their perspective and not your own. Interact sparingly, take time to 'decompress' when you get back home to your sanctuary and soak in bath salts once a week; read or watch something that inspires you every day.
Dhani Nallainathan says
Gratitude.
Jess Ika says
Is the open/closed heart the gateway between the different levels/planes of experience on Earth?
I recall reading a post here or on the diary [I cannot find it at the moment] that expressed that our experience of life on Earth is a sort of "manic depressive" because we are straddling different realities, higher and lower, at the same time. It seems connected…
Also, has there been a change in recent history that has caused keeping the heart open to be more challenging? Up to a point it was seemingly effortless.
Thank you for this lighthouse of hope and guidance on the journey.
Rogier says
You've probably seen this, but just in case https://www.alminediary.com/our-assumed-identities/
Bas Waaijer says
I can only feel compassion for the question asked. I can sense the predicament.
The only thing I do know is that the answer never lies with influencing 'them'… π
Vanessa Power says
Great advice Beloved Almine,
Deep Gratitude to the One who brought this question forward.
Alexandra Murray says
I have been wondering how to properly support myself for years now with this matter.
Amirey says
how long can you take this Psi Stabil?
Alexandra Murray says
I emailed Jan Alvey for this protocol. I unsure who else has taken it.
Vanessa Power says
Amirey,
I recall Almine recommending for 5months for Psy-Stabil in the 2 hr audio for 5monrh detox as She adress' s other symptoms there too.
Very worth having.
Do not quote Me on this as it may have changed since then.
Alexandra Murray says
Thanks Vanessa!
Rogier says
I don't think there is a limit, insofar as it's non-habit forming. But you should double-check with a practitioner.
Gio says
LOVE LOVE FOR THIS SHARINGS THANK YOU DEAREST both of you π§‘ππΏοΈπ₯