Anonymous:
So if my partner is less conscious than myself, how can I cope with the difference?✶
The Seer:
As you would with any other less conscious family members. Interact sparingly but meaningfully (sparingly doesn't mean shallowly). The less time you spend with your partner, the more important it is to make your together times memorable.
The "Don'ts":
- Don't assume that less awakened means less important in the pageantry of life. The silences between the notes of life's symphony are just as important as the harmonious interaction of tones.
- Don't try and adopt the illusion that your marriage should resemble that of the way married people interact amongst humanity. Your spouse chose to be with a godbeing, not another human. It should be obvious that you are not going to behave according to the dictates of social conditioning. Even though he or she may not know that their spouse is a godbeing, you should at all times remember who you are. You would fail in your mission here on Earth, if you forfeit your authenticity by trying to live up to the expectations of others.
The Seer
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This would apply surely too to OO relationships. I've yet to meet a single person even in OO partnerships where there is a completely matching level of conscious (not sure such a thing even exists/is possible), and it appears to be challenge for most to maintain the fullest expression of personal power at all times without falling into the trap of thinking that just because another is an OO, they necessarily "measure up" in terms of actual expression (vs potential).
And outside of intimate relationships too, it seems to be a big issue that's had to be confronted deeply over the last few years within our Lightfamily.
Even if you can love and respect eachother's essence of who you both are, I can imagine it is still hard if decision making is at least partly determined by one of a lower awareness.
And even if one of us cut ties with relationships that no longer serve, you may still be involved with their social circle.
I don't think OO relationships are complicated by definition, but to find a human who can put up or keep up with us is a whole other story. 😀
I am the seed planter for my spouse. He remains skeptical but open. I have seen over the years how he has grown, the seeds became sprouts. He learns on his timeline and I learn on my own. We both grow parallel to each other and I see where I have learned from him. I see how when I did judge him for not being on my level, that it was only my ego. For the biggest thing he has taught me was how to live life presently without the ego in charge. Our differences compliment each other so well, I am grateful.
Such excellent advice and insights. Thank you!
Thank you <3
Thankyou Almine 💕
Thank you Almine. Such wisdom, grace and compassion.
So true!! Thank you for sharing this example of Living our Godhood!
Thank you – important to remember in all interactions.
I loved it, important
Thank you ❤️