Rogier:
What is the root cause of conflict?
The Seer:
The separation of poles. When opposite poles become separated, they become conflicting; mutually hostile towards each other. When opposite poles become integrated, being expressed at the same time, they become mutually supportive and benign in how they relate towards one another.
Previous: Ultimate Meditation
I realized that we need to allow others to assist us in our growth, especially in what we haven’t developed yet. Just like a child, unselfconsciously allowing the abundant resources to flow to support it. And through those unselfconscious eyes, recognize that we have the opportunity to demonstrate the mastery of the situation rather than re-fighting the battle, if the lesson have been already learnt. And then the question arises…in which way can I support my environment?
What is making them separated? I am looking for it. I noticed in my own relationship when I am going so far from my husband he will start conflict. I figured out that I am the cause by going so far and he pulling me back. But what let me become separate? I am still looking for answers. I have some glimpses but I can’t grub it as an insight yet.
Wonderful. Thank you.