What criteria must a spontaneous action pass before it's a valid action to take?
The criteria are:
- Is it kind?
- Is it true?
- Is it necessary?
- Am I living up to others' expectations of me? That is, the labels they've given me? For instance: "Johnny is so kind, or contrary, or unpredictable… Suzie is so forgiving of my folly, she's so loyal, she's so jealous…"
- Am I attempting to influence how others see me?
- Am I living up to how I see myself? (believing labels you or others have given you)
Ask the following when making personal decisions: What message does this action send the universe?