The Seer’s Thought of the Day
It is the destiny of the gods among men to transform, by proxy, the way relationships function on Earth:
The norm of how humans form relationships and interpersonal bonding is based on dysfunction and is therefore unstable. (If either partner outgrows the dysfunction, the relationship breaks up.)
- Dysfunction as a bond
The dysfunctional codependent triangle is by far the most prevalent way of being in a relationship amongst humanity
The three stages of codependency =
- Seeking similarity and giving all that one can
- Trying to control the one that one has given so much to
- Feeling betrayed if the other person doesn’t want to be controlled
- The second flaw in relationships occur when they are need-based; when two partners come together based on what they can get from each other. Self-sovereign partners stand a much better chance of having successful relationships.
It is the destiny of the enlightened ones to learn to base their relationships on mutual inspiration. It requires daily effort and awareness to find something inspiring in the other person. Life supports that which is growth-promoting.
The Seer
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Nicely put. 🙂
Yes, thank you for the reminder in 2026. Every earthly relationship has to evolve, but way way easier said than done. We might have a group discussion about the many we have tried approaching this dilemma that didn’t work in the long term. Sometimes I feel like it is easier to bang my head against the wall than try to get a human to shift their perception a single iota.
Thankyou for this Almine 💓
Thank you so much for the inspiration.
Thank you so much.
Thank you for this inspiration.